going crazy!!

ok.. I am freaking going crazy with my kids.. so disrespectful.. the oldest one is.. so much..but they know I DO NOT PLAY GAMES!!.. see again they have ammunition and so do I .. as an example. they want my ammunition to run out so they can take control..NEGATIVE..NEGATIVE.. I believe my oldest child had a diffrent dx than what the dr has given him.. I don't care, I just know that I will never give up on them, but I think they want me to so they can go live with the (incubator)..not a chance.. they do not know whats good for them..we know as parents, because we have been down that road, been there, done that..kids today think they are invinsable, that they have no consequence in life.. i know I was there once..we have to as parents direct them in the right direction, even though they are putting me and my husband in our grave earlier..lol... just going crazy lately.... but one thing is for sure.. we as parents do not under mine each other and we stick together.. when I make a punishment he also enforces it.. and vice a versa.. so in the long run.. we as parents will prevail..and the story will continue!!!